Magic Potions

All I really need is for others to do what I want. Since my persuasive skills don't seem to be that sharp, I'm thinking of magic potions. Can anyone help me out? Once I have the ingredients I can always get the next batch by using the first. Suddenly everything is starting to look like some kind of perpetual motion scheme to me. I don't want to drink anything that makes everyone fall hopelessly in love with me. I just want to selectively attract my choice. I don't want to use the term "victim." That doesn't sound right.