Seems to me that maybe the major source of unhappiness is the expectation of happiness. Let's hope I've got it wrong because I can't see any way out of that one. How good would romance be without drama? We'll never know.
Elvis offered to teach me karate. He didn't, of course, but he offered.
My life story is all based on "what if?" and "this close" and "if only."
I wouldn't change a thing.