If someone shows you who you are, believe them.
"I've never seen you look so happy."
"You seem to glow, somehow."
"That doesn't sound like you."
All those t-shirt sayings turn out to be true. The Hallmark wishes, too. Remember all those good wishes that your pals left in your yearbook? I would recommend patience but that would be wildly hypocritical. Maybe I should suggest, just wait. Follow all the paths marked "LOVE."