We can never really feel the other one's pain, can we? I guess a mother's concern is as close as we get, as a culture. My mom suffered more with my trials and tribulations than I ever could have. Maybe that's why loneliness is such a major part of loss. Loss of love, possessions, power. All of the lessons are right there. Love is the only remedy. Use your love. It's not like money. You won't waste it or run out of it. Hey, I've got answers.