Sometimes when I consider the energy that goes into the drama I'm amazed that there's anything left for the music. Change is easy, I suppose, if you pay attention. If 50% of "happiness" falls within the range of my control, I'm wearing a party hat and no pants from here on out.
Greif is always with us but joy is always lurking. Sprinkle your love wherever you go. That way you'll be able to find your way back.