Whatta' ya got to lose? Really, there is no forgiveness if we can't forgive, right? The potential for drama is always there. If you don't want it, leave it. Don't run for president and then act surprised when folks hate you. Half of them are set from the get go.
The music is simple. Beethoven's brand of simplicity was different than ours. Einstein daydreamed stuff that I couldn't learn at Oxford. Heck, Moe Howard towered over me in the brains department.
Spend all your love. That's my advice. My only advice, really. Ignore all that other stuff I've told you. Keep trying to give it away. Force it on 'em if you have to.