Funny, I've always been able to avoid the guilt trap when it comes to the rules that are clearly put together to see that some of us have power over some of the others. Not so much with my own sex life, however. I still seem to worry about going to hell or going blind if I stray from anything that I learned in Sunday school. I'm fixing that. I'll get back to you with details. Let me know in the meantime if you have suggestions to fix me.