Ha! I coulda' been a pirate by now. Society has let me in a few times. Oh, I never scrambled to gain access. It was always geography and proximity. Marriage a couple of times.
I grew up amongst the privileged. I had no clue. I was distinctly hoi polloi. Again, I had no idea. I'm equally uncomfortable with any group.
That's not altogether true. I'm at home with dogs and children.