Turns out the universe is as simple or as intricate as you think it is. It's all just stuff. Trees are falling in the forest with no-one around all the time. The secret, if you can call it a secret, is to enjoy it.
If the rules are made by bad guys, do you disregard them? Sorta' makes you an outlaw, doesn't it?
We all know that we shouldn't judge. We all judge.
If you can make someone happy while enjoying life, yourself, you're successful, in my book.
Spread some joy, give some love. Give some more. Don't worry much about what they think. They don't know any more about it than you do.
Give us peace on earth and end this dreadful, dreadful war.